In a previous blog I mentioned a new leadership philosophy that I’ve begun to study. It’s an involved process of small processes affecting larger ones.
I’m going to proceed slowly and reveal its entirety over time. In the upcoming months I’ll be able to pull it all together for you.
In that process, here are some basic concepts that I’d like you to think about:
- Don’t take everything so seriously. Laughter is the natural response to truth.
- Know that you are perfect as you are, just as everyone else is. You are right where you need to be.
- When asked to do something or give feedback, it should be up to you to accept or decline the invitation.
- Help to change something that affects someone only if they ask you to. It is fine to offer help, but be prepared for acceptance or rejection.
- Don’t tell others how to do their jobs unless asked. If you decide to, be prepared for the consequences.
- Don’t be judgmental; accept yourself and others as you are.
- Release yourself and others from your own interpretations and perceptions. It is an act of harm to hold an interpreted perception of another, unless it’s been requested.
- Live in the here and now, although it’s fine to dream of the future and rethink the past.
- Listen closely. Be careful of accepting others’ interpretations of you. If you accept the good, you are forced to accept the bad. (Others are projecting their own perceptions on you.)
All of this is simply a hint of the new leadership process that I’ll share in more detail as we get into 2010. For now it is food for thought.